Yoni Massage: A first time experience
I try to remain a humble person. I never overcompensate about the size of my junk, never brag about the amount of girls I've had in my bed. I do my best to keep my ego in check, as I am confident in my belief that there is someone out there who is better than me. The only thing I allow myself to feel is confidence in my ability to provide enough orgasms to my partner to leave a good impression.
Tonight, however, I feel like I may have done something worth sharing and, to a degree, worth bragging about.
A few days ago, my wife sent me a video clip from Facebook from the page of a sex therapist. The clip involved the description of something I've never heard of, called a Yoni massage. The clip caught my interests and I decided to do more research on it.
A few hours later, I realized I needed to try this.
Originating from the tantric practices, Yoni massage is designed to help one feel comfortable in their skin, specifically in building comfort and love in oneself. Focusing on building a relationship with your body, the sites I researched described yoni as a way to heighten arousal and stimulate more frequent and powerful orgasms for the female body. As one who focuses on my partner's satisfaction more than my own, I had to try it for myself.
I spent some time researching techniques and positions to focus on. I wanted this first time experience to be special for her.
To start off, I had her close her eyes and turned on some light tantric music from Youtube. This allowed her mind to come up with its own visions to start the arousal. Then, using slow deliberate movements, I massaged her breasts, but avoided the nipples. This was intentional as I wanted the body to start sending blood to the erogenous zones in her body. After several minutes of massaging her breasts, I moved up to her nipples and used gentle massage on them. Most of Yoni is designed to be slow, deliberate movements to bring the pleasure nerves to life, so you'll want to take your time with your partner's body.
Once I had given sufficient attention to her nipples, I moved my hands down to her vagina. But as with the breasts, I took my time with it. I started out with massaging the outer labia, drawing attention to the nerves in that area so that they became more responsive to touch. Once the outer labia was massaged thoroughly, I moved to the inner labia, rubbing firmly but gently. This also allowed me to give attention to the clitoris, using a kind of stroking movement along the sides and tip. By this time, my wife's body was very sensitive to my touch.
Following a suggestion from one of the video's I had researched, I eventually made my way to the perineum, masssaging it in circular movements. A lot of people miss this area, but I believe that it is worth giving more attention to this area knowing what I know now. Once the perineum had been stimulated enough, I decided to move my fingers inside my wife. This is one of the things I enjoy doing already, but I tried new techniques I had learned.
Using two fingers, I stimulated my wife's walls, but not just the g-spot. I did a kind of circular motion inside, massaging all of my wife's inner walls. This did require me to change positions from time to time, but it was worth it. By the time I was done, she was extremely tight around my fingers. Tighter than usual, if I'm being honest. It was almost like being with a virgin.
To finish things off, I left my middle and ring finger inside my wife, but placed the meat of my palm on her clitoris, and did some light grinding against her while curling my fingers back and forth on her g-spot. By this time, her whole body was centered on physical touch and she was having the time of her life. I allowed myself to get carried away, and brought her to orgasm several times before I decided it was time to put myself inside her. The sex we had was incredible and left us both satisfied. When finished, my wife confessed that this was one of the most satisfying experiences she has had.
The key takeaway from this experience that I feel needs attention is to keep the pace slow. The whole session before I even got my pants off took almost twenty minutes, and that was all focused on her. Using the right massaging techniques is also key, as you're trying to heighten the receptiveness of the pleasure nerves in those areas. Focus on how your partner reacts to certain touches and stimulations and you will help her reach new heights in your lovemaking.
One of the most informative videos I watched can be found here.
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