Bonds of lust

Now that we've covered the idea of what BDSM is, let's go over some of the more basic practices of it that can be found during a play session (a term used by those who practice BDSM in their sexual acts).    Role Play - The idea behind role play is to assume roles outside of your normal routine. Similar to dressing up for Halloween (or Samhain for my fellow pagans out there), you can dress up in costume or exciting outfits (such as private schoolgirl, dirty nun, hooker, just to name a few), and play out the role with your partner, (the strict teacher, the horny priest, the John). Role play in its basic form allows us to act out our inner most fantasies in a safe environment with an understanding and caring partner who can equally enjoy their own fantasies. But dressing up is only half the fun. Get into the character you're dressed as and bring it to life. In example, if you are dressed as a sexy vampire, imagine you've been alive for over a hundred years, and your par...

BDSM. A wonderful alternative way to spice up your sex life. While made famous (and some would say public) to the general population , thanks to the 50 Shades series , the practice of bondage, domination, sadomasochism (or submission and masochism if you are not one for sadism) has been practiced behind closed doors for hundreds of years. In the ancient days, it was sometimes a form of ritual ceremony, such as to honor certain Gods or Goddesses. In these modern times however, it is more a form of sexual pleasure that's outside the social norm. But these practices, while sometimes painful, are far from taboo in most cases. Rope play, roleplay, leather lingerie, even something as simple as a spanking are more common than you think, even if the practice itself is not always associated with BDSM. Here’s a deeper look into the fundamentals of BDSM.   What is BDSM?   Let's break down exactly what each letter of the acronym means. It's pretty self-explanatory but we'll...

 ( A little short story I wrote when i was bored one night. Not one of my best pieces, but I like it enough to share here. It's somewhat based on a long thought out fantasy I had wanted to do over the years. Maybe one day I will make it real.)  Tonight's going to be interesting.     I look in on you finishing your make up in the bathroom mirror. Black eyeshadow and lipstick. Cinderella's goth persona, you once told me. However, you opted to wear the black skirt and fishnet bodysuit with the pasties tonight, instead of your usual gamer girl look. I will not lie, I like this look on you better. And it matches tonight's theme. You look at me in the mirror and smile as you put the finishing touches on. I step back and go to our playroom, thinking on how this night came about.     A few weeks prior, you presented your journal to me while I was working on my latest story. You knelt like I had trained you, eyes down as you held your journal up to me. This caught ...