A little foreplay

 What inspired me to start up a blog on sex advice and techniques?


Well, back during the great Covid pandemic of 2020 (which I’m sure you’re all more than familiar with yourself), I was in lockdown just like everyone else. And during my lockdown, I found myself without a job for almost three months. Since I had a lot of free time, I put my writing skills into action and worked on various projects, mostly for my own sanity. But one of the projects I did was a sex guide designed to help virgins have a good foundation when the opportunity to lose their V-card arose, (no pun intended).


I set out to gain an idea of what people wish they had known when having sex the first time. It is surprising to see how little virgins actually know, and even more sad to discover was the amount of things that people offered as advice they wish they had had in the beginning. Over the course of a month of research, polls, and general questioning, I had amassed a wealth of advice to pass on to others. And with this in mind, I got set on writing “The Virgin’s Guide to Great Sex.”


It was my intention to offer a solid foundation to help people understand sex in a way that was both pleasurable and safe. I took the research and categorized everything into more manageable chapters, bringing my project to life using my own experiences as well as the experiences and advice of others.


After several weeks, the guide was more or less finished. It had everything I had set out to put out there to achieve what I had written it for. And after a few more weeks, I had self made illustrations for it. The final piece was a compact guide that could be easily understood by everyone with a high school reading level and the illustrations provided a detailed picture guide for some of the more in depth chapters.


But I never published it.


In my eyes, it wasn’t finished. But I could not expand on it without breaking it down to the foundation I had built it on, and completely change it into a new version that was opposite my original intention. So I stuck a pin in it and set it aside.


For years, it sat in my external hard drive, collecting digital dust. Now, I want to take it and still put it to use, only this time, instead of a guidebook, I decided to put it into a blog. This would allow me to keep the original design available, while also having an opportunity to expand on it in a way that wouldn’t allow it to lose the spirit of the guide.


So now, I invite you to enjoy this site and hopefully you’ll learn something that will allow you to enjoy more intimacy in the bedroom. And who knows, you may have a story or two to share that could benefit others who watch this blog.


Enjoy!

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