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Lets wrap this up

  Here we are at the end of our journey. Where do you go from here? Do you continue having the sex that you've learned in this guide, or do you go further and learn new skills from more experienced individuals? Only you can answer this question, and it is hoped that you continue learning. There are always new things to learn especially in the bedroom. And it is up to you to take the steps necessary to learn them. Next time you are at the sex shop, pick up a new toy to play with. Order a book about Kama Sutra on your next Amazon purchase. Google S hibari ties and see what inspires you. There is no end to what you can learn to do in the bedroom, and it's all at your fingertips. This guide was the foundation for you to build upon. And hopefully you built a strong one.    Always remember these simple rules:   Keep it SSC.   Keep it wrapped.   Keep it pleasurable.   And as always, keep it sexy.  

Aftercare: A must

  There you are, laying together in post-orgasmic bliss. You're probably short of breath, a little sweaty, and feeling that wonderful tingling feeling throughout your bodies. Maybe the sex was a little rough, and you have that delicious ache in your groins. Perhaps you had a BDSM session and you got rope marks along your arms and legs from where you pulled at the ropes. Life is, for lack of a better word, perfect.    But what do you do now?   You could always go at it again, if you both have the strength. But in the instances where neither of you can continue, it's always good to provide a little aftercare to each other. It helps build the bond between two partners by taking care of some basic needs. It's not always cuddling (although this is a nice way to start aftercare). Aftercare can be something as simple as getting drinks to restore electrolytes, some snacks to enjoy, a nap, even light conversation. Taking a shower once you've regained your strength to move is ...

Anal Sex

  If you've been having sex for a while, you probably skipped right to this section. Anal sex seems to be the most sought-after goal for most couples who want to try something new. And it's not as dirty as people will have you believe; it's merely different. Of course, it's also not meant for everyone, and should be practiced by those who are comfortable with each other. An important thing you both should remember is that, unlike the vagina, anal sex is something you cannot dive right into. It takes relaxation, comfort, and patience. This is one of those practices where having toys specially designed for anal sex will be good to have on hand. Anal plugs, beads, and small dildos will come in handy and is highly recommended .  Some couples can take days or weeks before they successfully hav ing anal sex. There are steps that you can take that will help ease into it when you’re both ready.   Make each other comfortable- Comfort needs to be established, both emotionally ...

The G Spot

  A secret spot hidden in the cave of pleasure, the g-spot is another good place to rub in order to bring your woman to orgasm. Like its sister the clit, the g-spot has a direct line to the brain's pleasure center. But where do you go to play with it? That's an easy question to answer. As stated earlier, the g-spot is about two to two and a half inches inside the vagina. When you reach in with your finger or toy, feel around for a small patch of spongy muscle tissue. You'll usually know you got it from her reaction. She'll either tell you, her body will tense up, maybe she'll take a quick breath. Once you have it, you can start stimulating it. If you're using your finger, make a "come here" motion. Make sure your nails are trimmed and clean, to avoid an y accidental scratches. Making the "come here" motion will usually send her over the edge within a short time. But you can make things better by pumping your finger in and out of her vagina ...

What's in your toybag?

  Growing up, we had toy boxes full of Barbies and G.I. Joes, jump ropes, and any number of fun things we used to make our childhoods more interesting and entertaining. Just because we're adults now , doesn't mean we still can't play with toys. The toys we play with are more for pleasure though. T hey come in many shapes and sizes that fit everyone's desires. And not just dildo's and vibrators. The toy's that are available include anal plugs, beads, strap-on, ropes, costumes, paddles, and more. There's a little bit of something for everyone. Let's go over some of the more common ones you can start out with.   Dildos - Dildos, strap-ons, and vibrators all fall under the same general category. These toys are good for single people and couples who want to add to their bedroom activities. They can come in any shape , size and style. Vibrators are battery operated and can provide many different features such as pumping, vibrating, and twirling. Strap-ons ar...

Positions Galore

  You're at the final frontier. All clothes are off. Condom on. Everyone's been properly played with. You're both finally ready to take that next step and have sexual intercourse.   What now?   Which position do you do?   Thankfully, with the help of centuries of studies, there are virtually limitless possibilities of where to go from here. There are positions that can be done with just about any body type and it's all limited by your imagination. But, if it's your first time, you can start with these basic positions until you're ready to explore beyond.    * The simplest position is called the Missionary position. It's a simple position, where the woman will lay on her back and either spread her legs or brings them to her chest . T he man will then insert his penis into her vagina and begin to go back and forth into her. In this position, the man can control virtually every aspect of what's going on. He can go as deep and hard as he wants, he handles...